A slave (sometimes called 'property' or 'servant') is a term used to describe an s-type and much like a 'Master', is often used a variety of ways. Most often this term is used to refer to the submissive person in a consenting Master/slave relationship, usually defined as a 24/7 Total Power Exchange (TPE) relationship that is greatly respected within the BDSM community.
To vanillas this would be similar to Bushido lords and body servants or Roman or Greek heads of households and their house slaves with a twist of democracy:
In a true BDSM dynamic the Master and slave will have agreed on a written list of rules, limits hard and soft, safewords and signals, et cetera before beginning the TPE
The word "slave" is gender-independent: slaves can be of any gender and sexual orientation. If gender is to be indicated, use a phrase such as "female slave" or "male slave", or the common compound terms slave-girl or slave-boy. Some male slaves are sissified - i.e., they prefer to be treated and referred to in a traditionally feminine manner, and some regardless of gender, prefer to use alternate pronoun conventions, ask someone if you're not sure what personal pronouns they prefer.
The rules agreed to will vary depending on the dynamic agreed upon between the Dominant and the slave, those below are written to give an idea of what chores and/or activities may be expected. These were written using the most common gender stereotypes (Male Dominant and female slave) for the sake of simplicity.
Lifestyles After Dark supports all gender and sexual blending between consenting and informed adults
General Household Rules
The slave should always remove clothing as soon as she gets home unless Master has laid out clothing for the slave or submissive to wear.
The slave should fold and store clothes neatly or place them in the laundry whenever she gets undressed.
The slave is to kneel in present posture whenever the Master is due to arrive and wait patiently.
Whenever the Master is present in a room, the slave must ask permission to enter in the following fashion: "Would it please you if your slave entered the room?"
The slave will kneel in the room until the Master gives permission that he or she may move or proceed with cleaning.
The slave will wear and gratefully accept any toys the Master chooses to insert or adorn her or him with while engaged in chores or in any other circumstance.
The slave will not speak unless spoken to, but may request an opportunity to speak if there is something pressing to discuss when the Master commands silence.
The slave may request an opportunity to serve the Dominant in the following way: "Would it please you to have your slave serve you?"
The slave does not sleep in the Master's bed or assigned spot within the Master's room unless it is the express wish of the owner.
This is an earned privilege, not a right.
The slave will always thank the Master for an opportunity to serve.
The slave will keep their eyes averted unless it is the wish of the Master to have their slave look them in the eyes.
The slave will address the Master by the title preferred by their Dominant.
In Public Or At Home With Others Present
The slave will receive visitors at the door wearing whatever clothing the Master commands.
The slave will greet visitors in whatever manner the Master/Mistress commands
This may include simply taking coats, escorting and serving them; kissing the hand of the guest or kneeling in front of them.
The slave will use the title 'Sir' or 'Ma'am' when speaking to the Master's guests regardless to make sure she remembers her place.
The slave will serve every person with food and drinks as requested
The slave will not use furniture and will kneel on the floor until her services are required.
The slave will not speak unless spoken to.
The slave will remain attentive to make sure that no one has to ask for additional food or drink.
Unless specified by the Master or an acknowledged peer with permission , the slave has no name within social gatherings
The slave must always ask permission before using the restroom or bathing.
The slave has no right to privacy, as such the bathroom door will never be closed.
The slave must accept it calmly when the owner decides that a bathroom break will not be allowed at that very moment.
Punishment and/or discipline take precedence over any other command.
The slave must show gratitude for punishment and/or discipline.
The slave must take correction gracefully and maintain a grateful presence after the fact.
The slave must confess to disobedience and take responsibility even when their Dominant is not present and beg for punishment and/or discipline.
The slave must always maintain the punishment position in these cases.
The slave must be available for sexual service whenever the dominant or his guests require it.
The slave must always be ready for any form of sexual service, which would mean that her or his body must be prepared in order to make it easy for the dominant or guests to use him or her.
The slave will not be allowed to have an orgasm without permission.
The slave will maintain her Master's preferred grooming standards at all times.
The slave will be clean and pleasant to all the senses at all times.
The slave is not allowed to touch her Master's property without permission in any sexual way.
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